"Accept the mystery"

 We romanticize our home , when we are not there . We romanticize a relationship when we don't have it. we romanticize limits, boundaries, religion, science, nature, cities. All good or bad . It's something that we do and there is probably a reason to it. A lot of it is to keep ourselves from feeling bad. Or alone. Or dead. Most of the times it is something that we enjoy having. Having a country to be nostalgic about is nice. Having friends to miss. Bodies to desire. Music to dance to. It is all good. It is nice. we probably need it.

Sometimes this romantic attitude of most of us lucky portion of humanity, Turns itself into hatred to other stuff. We then hate governments, cars, males, females, genres, races, words, people, people, people. This is all good too. We probably need this to to feel good. Feel important. Feel safe. Feel purposeful. And we probably will be all of those someday . or not . 

And how green and natural and caring and honest and comic and functioning and funny and beautiful and progressing and smart and curious and lovely we are. 

sometimes looking at people fills me up with joy. Sometimes it scares me.

 that Asian guy said : 

"accept the mystery"